June and July aren't good months to me. I have left my previous job for good, I didn't performed up to my own expectation during the Grand Finale of Miss Malaysia Tourism 2013 that I wanted to stab myself with a fork each and every time that embarrassing moment flashes in my head, I failed a job interview I was so closed to securing, I haven't got my car insurance settled due to various external factors that are beyond my control...
8. He love you and accept the way you are.
Even when you can't cook.
When a man is truly into you, wild horses cannot keep him from running after you. You never have to bend backwards to meet his needs.
Things like he does thing the way you love, he text you within seconds etc are not included here because anyone who has the slightest interests in you can do so. Bear in mind that I am not saying these are 'hardcore evidences' to show that he is truly into you. Some jerks/badboys/players can fake them rather well just to get laid. But usually, guys who aren't serious will not put forth so much efforts. These are things that he will naturally do if he really wants you in his life. Therefore, always listen closely to what your gut feeling tells you.
I was depressed for days.
Constantly, an inner voice reminded me that things aren't gonna be any better if I refused to move forward. Hence, I picked up my phone and pressed on the numbers that could potentially save me from my current devastation.
I did it! Major change will be happening to my life. It would costs me time if things doesn't work out smoothly. Considering that I am no longer in my early twenties nor late teenage, time is so limited that if I don't do it now I might regret later. After weighing the goods and the bads, I have chosen to take a leap of faith *fingers crossed*
Talking about identifying Mr. Wrong, being in my mid-twenties, I know more than I used to but know lesser than until I meet the significant one who makes my head nod. Below are signs when a man is truly into you that I learned so far through listening to successful as well as heart-breaking stories of others.
The 'general signs' are, when a man is truly committed, you'll never have to wonder where is he and who is he talking to, because you trust him without the need to ask nor investigate. He'll constantly try to please you because he wants you all by himself. He'll want you to meet his parents. He'll be grateful for the everyday he spent with you. He wants to care for you, from the biggest to the smallest things. He'll feel comfortable to open up and share his entire life with you.
1. Small talk.
You talk about every little things you do in a day. From dating ideas, grocery shopping to picking up a 10 bucks on the way to work.
2. He calls/texts you in any time in any day.
You might be a booty call if your call log shows most of his number calling/texting you after 12am. He would want to call you any time in any day if he is serious about you, not just after 12 ams.
3. He wants to see you, very much.
He will make every effort to see you regardless of how busy he is. Even when work needs to be done, he will find ways to get it done and see you. He wants to do random things with you such as running errands, took walks, exploring new restaurants etc. Basically, he wants you around him everywhere. (Let's not argue on guy-time out, family-time or whatever that makes no logical romantic sense).
4. He truly cares about you.
On every single thing you do. Even the smallest eg. Your hamster is sick and you have no idea which vet to go to. He might be kind enough to Google for one nearest to your house and feed you with the information he obtained. Or even drives you out to get things done! He listens to the drama between you and your friends/colleagues even though these add no value to his life.
5. He wants to spend quality time with only you.
A way to 'combat' boring dates are to 'dilute' the other person's presence by calling in a troop of friends. If he is really into you, he naturally wants to know more about you. He'd feel comfortable seeing you one on one without the 'disturbance' of having anyone you nor he knows around.
Things will be at an entirely different level when a man is ready to bring you to see his friends. That is undoubtedly good sign that shows he is truly into you and couldn't wait to introduce you to his friends and family. But this is not what I am trying to include here.
Things will be at an entirely different level when a man is ready to bring you to see his friends. That is undoubtedly good sign that shows he is truly into you and couldn't wait to introduce you to his friends and family. But this is not what I am trying to include here.
6. Distance.
You're not immediately dismissed from his mind when you and him are apart but instead, distance intensifies his desire to communicate with you and he anticipates seeing you again.
7. He isn't afraid to let you see the other side of him.
Serious, vulnerable, insecure, deep, well-behaved, thoughtful, whatever the opposite of how he usually behaves in front of others.
8. He love you and accept the way you are.
Even when you can't cook.
When a man is truly into you, wild horses cannot keep him from running after you. You never have to bend backwards to meet his needs.
Things like he does thing the way you love, he text you within seconds etc are not included here because anyone who has the slightest interests in you can do so. Bear in mind that I am not saying these are 'hardcore evidences' to show that he is truly into you. Some jerks/badboys/players can fake them rather well just to get laid. But usually, guys who aren't serious will not put forth so much efforts. These are things that he will naturally do if he really wants you in his life. Therefore, always listen closely to what your gut feeling tells you.
These signs might sound crazy when you are 'sober'. Feel free to share with me if you think otherwise :)
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